Communication: In Words & Beyond

Dear all, This time we will talk and discuss about communication in relationships How do you show romantic interest? How do you approch a person you want to start a conversation with, having a romantic interest? With what words do you initiate a conversation? And how good are you at recognizing when someone else is interested in you? What words would you like to hear from someone who communicates romantic interest? How would you describe your gut feeling when you approach and are being approached? When you have established relationship: What is truely good communication then? Is it words, attention, questions, eye contact, something else or all together? How well do your words typically match your actions? Have you observed your partner saying certain things and doing other? How to approach that in a correct way? Which one should we trust when they contradict each other? What do you communicate without saying anything? Think about eye contact, facial expressions, touch, distance, silence, and body language. Do you communicate directly what you want and need, or do you expect the other person to understand without being told? What happens to your communication when you feel vulnerable? Do you become more open, quiet, defensive, humorous, distant, or demanding? Is silence also communication? What can silence mean in dating: comfort, insecurity, punishment, disinterest, attraction, or simply needing space? How do you communicate disagreement? Can you say “I don't agree with you” while maintaining warmth, curiosity, and respect? How should we interpret mixed signals? If someone's words say “I like you” but their behaviour says “I'm unavailable,” which message matters more? We will talk-work in mixed gender groups of 6-10 people at several tables and see where this will take you! A warm welcome! Vilija and team In order to support this group going I kindly ask you to contribute with 100 sek ink VAT. Please pay at registration: Swish 123-1125863. \ A Different Date is an educational discussion event developed from the Practical Psychology Club. It offers you a chance to understand yourself better while meeting other singles who are also looking for a meaningful relationship. Important criteria Openness, curiosity, and a willingness to know yourself better while connecting with others through meaningful conversations. A moderated discussion based on open-ended questions and reflective insights. This is an educational activity, not a speed-dating event or matchmaking service. The aim is to promote self-awareness and authentic connections with other singles. I look forward to meeting you! Vilija Oke (MD, PhD and mentor)