💞 Authentic Relating Games Night

☀️ Hobbies & Hang-ups: What's Stopping You From Creating?

When the world feels heavy and so much is outside our control, creativity can be a quiet act of resistance—a way to come back to ourselves.

I've been thinking a lot about this lately. As a kid, I was always making something: pom-pom animals, homemade dollhouse furniture, spin art (remember spin art?!). There was something so alive about that—the mess, the focus, the little thrill of finishing something with your own hands.

Somewhere along the way, that faded. Now I bookmark craft reels on Facebook and... never open them again. I have an entire craft room waiting for me, full of possibility, full of potential. Just waiting.

The funny thing is, I do create when there's a purpose. I made a felt crown for a two-year-old I adore. I took a sewing class and made my sister an apron. Give me someone to make something for, and I show up. But for myself? Netflix wins almost every time. It's easier. It asks nothing of me.

So I'm sitting with a question, and I'd love to know if it resonates with you:
What gets in the way of doing something you know you'd enjoy? 💗

That's exactly the kind of question I love exploring together—honestly, curiously, without judgment. That's at the heart of what Authentic Relating is about: real conversations, a space to feel genuinely seen and heard, and the unexpected warmth of connecting with people you might not have met otherwise.

🌿 What to Expect

Authentic Relating is a set of practices and games that help people connect more honestly, deeply, and meaningfully with themselves and others. Instead of staying on the surface, we'll explore skills like listening, curiosity, self-awareness, and genuine communication. The goal isn't to be perfect—it's to be real.

A typical Authentic Relating Game Night might include:

Simple, playful exercises that help us get to know one another
Partner conversations and small-group activities
Questions that invite curiosity, reflection, and meaningful connection
Opportunities to practice listening, expressing ourselves, and being genuinely present
A little laughter, a little vulnerability, and perhaps a few wonderful surprises!

Some activities are lighthearted and fun, while others invite deeper reflection. No experience is needed—just a willingness to show up as yourself and connect with others in a welcoming, judgment-free environment.

🌎 Who It's For

Everyone is welcome! Whether you're naturally outgoing, wonderfully introverted, a little shy, or simply curious about connecting more deeply with others, there's a place for you here.

A few common questions:

Do I have to share personal or vulnerable things?
No. You're always encouraged to honor your own boundaries and share only what feels right for you. Authentic Relating is about increasing awareness and choice, not pushing yourself beyond your comfort zone. Many people start by simply observing, listening, and sharing small truths.

What if I'm shy, introverted, or awkward in groups?
You're not alone! Many people drawn to Authentic Relating consider themselves shy, introverted, or socially anxious. The practices are designed to create a supportive environment where you can participate at your own pace. There's no pressure to perform, be outgoing, or "do it right."

Is Authentic Relating like therapy?
Authentic Relating is not therapy, although it can sometimes feel meaningful and transformative. The focus is on practicing real-time connection, communication, and self-awareness with others. While personal insights often arise, the emphasis is on relational skills and present-moment experience rather than treating mental health concerns.

🕯️ Hosted by Kim Davies

You'll be welcomed by Kim, a Creative Life Expression Specialist who loves bringing people together through honest conversation, playful exploration, and meaningful human connection. Kim creates space for us to ask interesting questions, share our experiences, and discover a little more about ourselves and one another.

✨ Ready to Connect?

Come explore what gets in the way of our creativity, what helps us come alive, and what becomes possible when we feel genuinely seen and heard. No need to prepare anything or have the perfect answer. Just bring yourself, your curiosity, and an open mind.

📅 First Tuesday each month • 6:30–8:30 PM

💗 Suggested contribution: $25 via Venmo to @coachKimDavies
Any questions? Ask me anything at [email protected]!

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📍 Lajja Space
10851 SE Main Street, Milwaukie, OR

Free parking is available in front of the studio or in the parking lot between Jackson and Monroe Streets.

Come as you are. Let's get curious, make meaningful connections, and rediscover a little of what makes us feel alive.