IRL at The Saint

AN EVENING OF ELIGIBLES

Meet people, not profiles.
There’s something different about meeting someone in real life.
A glance across the room. A conversation you didn’t plan on having. Chemistry you can’t measure through a screen.
IRL is bringing dating back offline.
For our St. Helena gathering, we're taking over The Saint for an intimate evening created for Bay Area and Wine Country eligibles ages 35–55 who are ready for something a little more intentional.
No speed dating.
No awkward games.
No swiping.
Just a beautiful room, a great cocktail, interesting people—and the possibility of meeting someone you’re genuinely excited to see again.

WHY THE SAINT?

IRL events aren't held just anywhere.
Our venues are intentionally selected from some of The Bay Edit Magazine's favorite finds throughout the Bay Area and Wine Country—from hidden speakeasies and destination wineries to rooftops, boutique hotels and exceptional restaurants.
The Saint is exactly the kind of place we love.
Located in the heart of St. Helena, it has the intimate, sophisticated atmosphere we envisioned for IRL: beautiful surroundings, great wine and cocktails, and a setting that makes staying for one more drink very easy.

WHAT TO EXPECT

This isn't a giant, anything-goes singles mixer.
IRL events are age-specific and intentionally limited so the room feels social without feeling overwhelming.
Come alone. Come with another eligible friend. Order something you love, settle in and actually talk to people.
And don't worry about figuring out who's part of IRL—we'll take care of that at check-in. 😉
Dress: Date-night worthy.
Ages: 35–55
When: Wednesday, October 21 · 6–8 PM
Where: The Saint · St. Helena

YOUR TICKET

$20 per person · Welcome bubbles included 🥂
Your ticket reserves your place on the IRL guest list and includes a welcome glass of bubbles upon arrival.
Not drinking? You're in very good hands. The Saint has an amazing selection of zero-proof options and beautifully crafted mocktails, so there’s absolutely no need for alcohol to have something special in your glass.
Additional food and beverages are available for purchase directly from The Saint.
Space is intentionally limited.

GETTING THERE

There is street parking available in downtown St. Helena, but if you're planning on enjoying a glass (or two), we highly recommend Uber or Lyft.
Besides… there’s something much more fun about getting dressed up, getting dropped off right in front, and letting someone else worry about the parking. 😉
Your only job is to show up looking good. We'll take it from there.

Come for the venue. Stay for the conversation. Maybe leave with a reason to delete an app.
IRL
Meet people, not profiles.
Better offline.