Colchester LGBTQ+ Gear Social

Hi, I'm Pup Ruckus aka Wes the Barman, and I'd like to invite Colchester's Queer leather and latex lovers, rubber babes, petplayers, pups, handlers and gearheads of all genders to a brand new kink-wear mixer evening! Even if you don't have any gear of your own, if you're LGBTQ+ and kinky or curious about the scene, you're welcome to join!

Hosted at the beautiful Dragonfly Lounge this social is a chance to strut your stuff in your favourite fetish attire among likeminded folks in a safe and welcoming environment; in the privacy of the main Lounge space, you're free to be yourself away from prying eyes to a backdrop of light entertainment and music.

This event is strictly 18+, fetish-wear encouraged but not required. The Lounge will be closed to the general public for the duration of this event. However, due to licensing conditions, the Dragonfly Lounge strictly do not permit nipple, genital or rear nudity, sexual activity or active fetish play on premises. There are private spaces within the lounge for those attending to change clothes so it is not necessary to arrive in gear, however, anyone wishing to do so will be asked to remove any face coverings briefly to check ID at the door.

There may be opt-in professional photography offered on the night, anyone may opt out at any time, and I ask that anyone wishing to take their own photos ensure that no other non-consenting individuals are captured in any images or videos or shared on social media without the express consent of everyone visible in the images.

For your reassurance and safety, I will be staffing the bar myself in my own gear for the evening and security will be on hand checking tickets and ID at the door to ensure that everyone present is consenting and of the correct age to attend, as well as monitoring the safety of our outside smoking and vaping area should anyone wish to use it.

Tickets are free and are purely in place to ensure that those attending are aware of the event they are arriving to. I have added the option to make a donation should anyone wish to offer support with the cost associated with providing security for the evening, all other staff for the evening will be voluntary including myself.